Any stalling, or worse, attempts at reconciliation are red lights for you to put a stop to seeing him until he is officially, legally single. If so, that tells you that he is willing to work on disagreements as well as letting you know that the divorce was not a rash decision.
The first question that must be answered is: Why is he getting a divorce and what is the timeline?
Now, one might wonder whether you should even bother dating a man going through a divorce (or a woman, for that matter).
Isn’t it going to be a risky and super-messy affair?
In most cases, a divorce is a decision that comes after a lot of pain and heartache, and is usually one that is made after a good deal of thought.
A couple going through a divorce have likely exhausted all possibilities of making things work, and are breaking up a relationship that they once thought would last forever.